Wesley was born into a fairly religious family and was taught that sex and sexuality are not things you do or talk about until you are married to the woman of your dreams. As he grew up, he slowly learned that everything about that statement was wrong. He came out in his 20s and started to toy around with what type of relationship he wanted. He eventually met his husband, Kris, and fell head over heels. With Kris’ encouragement and support, they both started to explore what intimacy looked like to them, and how it was different from what society expected. They started to get involved in the kink community and have not looked back since.

Wesley started unofficially life coaching people in his mid to late 20s. Mostly friends and family. Through doing this, he learned he had a passion for helping people better themselves and has tried to follow that goal since. He recently became a Master Certified Life Coach.

Wesley lives with Kris in the Boston area with their lovely fur baby, a female guinea pig named Jack. In his spare time, he likes to play video games and probably watches too much YouTube. He and Kris also love watching TV and movies together, and they try to get out to Geocache at least a couple of times a month. Wes is grateful to have met Kris, as he would not be the person he is today without the love, support, and encouragement he received through their relationship.